Tough Love

The people in our lives that we live with everyday have some type of emotion or feeling for us. Most of our family loves us but do you EVER realize how HARD on you they are? Well the ONLY explanation I can come up with is.. it's TOUGH LOVE! These people love you but discipline and tell when your doing things wrong so that you'll learn and UNDERSTAND! they ARE NOT doing it purposely to make you mad or annoyed unless it's your little 8 year old brother lol... =D Tough LOVE is an unhappy, unpleasant thing.. but will help you through your days and help you UNDERSTAND! and if it's family doing this to you more than likely you'll LEARN! lol...

Questions:

What is sadness. We know it's an emotion but why? do we get sad. and why does it stay with us..? here's ANOTHER question: I myself believe in god. But what made this world why is EVERYTHING like so perfectly planned to where we have just ENOUGH oxygen and HOW the water cycles move and EVERYTHING is SO perfectly made to where we are ABLE to live and survive?. And everyone KNOWs we have mass but what if there WASN'T gravity.. I mean I know we would float around but what about the people who are standing right side up since we have weight would we float away and way NOTHING or still be standing.. Also... what's out side of the universe are there ACTUALLY other life forms out there? And one LAST thing... If we had no gravity and all how would we know when the world was right side up if there's no top and bottom to our universe or galaxy?

Emotions

Many people tell you NOT to morne over things and to face your fears but what they don't UNDERSTAND is crying IS A WAY of facing them and coping with them... you are expressing your feelings and emotions... Crying shows you have feeling or a HEART for that someone OR something.. It shows you CARED.. and miss it. Love is a behavior not an emotion it's something you have EVERYDAY for that special someone not ONLY on days when your day is going well.

Myspace

Teenagers have a myspace cause they are bored. More than HALF of us are on there to see our friends and chat NOT meet random people online. We know right from wrong. and Myspace should NOT be all over the news.. There might be people getting rapped and stuff on there but that's because they GIVE OUT their personal info NOT because of myspace itself.. Tom made this site so people could have fun not get killed or for ANYONE to fight over it. Parents OVER REACT when.. Kids FINALLY get a myspace. and we WOULDN'T have to go behind our parents backs to get one if they would JUST TRSUT US!.I KNOW this sounds like a bunch of BS.. but it's TRUE!. Parents should learn to trust us more and KNOW we would do the right things and MAKE the right choices.. Myspace is sorta JUST AN EXCUSE for them to use against us kids and teenagers when they have parents have their OWN problems they can't figure out and they wanna yell and raise hell... Well that's their way of using it against us... and YES I agree it's NOT fair but what can we say we HAVE to listen to you guys so... It's off to boarding school and reading books :(

Rain "quote"

If you wanna see a rianbow you have to put up with the RAIN!

If you want true love you have to put up with the PAIN!

Jealousy "quote"

Jealousy is nothing more than a lack of self confidence!

Here are a few tips:

You might agree with it, but when it actually happens 99% of girls dont realize it 'til it is too late and that guy who did it is so frustrated that he has moved on to someone who will take notice.

From a guys point of view:

We don't care if you talk to other guys.

We don't care if you're friends with other guys.

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

We don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned.

Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait
till the morning.

Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/
cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.

Don't tell us we're wrong.

We'll stop trying to convince you.

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.

Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood im in.

let us pay for you! dont "feel bad" about it

We enjoy doing it. It's expected.

Smile and say "thank you."

Kiss us when no one's watching.

If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed.

You don't have to get dressed up for us.

If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.

We like you for who you are and not what you are.

honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up

Don't take everything we say seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don't get angry easily.

Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

Don't talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us.

It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that.

Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful"

I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me
with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.

on the other hand im not sayin i woulndnt like it ether ; )

Girls, I cannot stress this enough:if you aren't being treated right by a guy, dont't wait for him to change.ditch his sorry,disgrace to the male population ass and find someone who will treat you with utter respect

Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when you're at your
lowest.

Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the eyes....and say "i love you" ..and actually mean it.

Give the nice guys a chance

HINTS?!?!?!

*Holdin Hands
Girls :If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of
times.
Guys : Grab it if it happens more than once.

*Cuddling
Girls : When you want to cuddle with him, tell him you're cold
Guys : Automatically move closer to her.

*Movies
Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder
Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her.

*Loving each other

Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her
too... And mean it.

*Laying below the stars

Girls : When you're both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat
Guys : Whisper in her ear and link your hands with hers.


I hope you guys and girls take this advice cause it's not everyday that someone tells you step by step how to keep a relationship in good shape!Or keep it interesting!

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